Speaking as a girl it’s a fact that we can gain or lose interest in the first couple of texts.
I’m sorry guys, I realise that it’s terrible that a few words can have such an impact. At least now you know and can do something about it…
If you have managed to get her number, well hopefully she is partly interested. Here are some tips that may help you catch the girl of your dreams:
Make her laugh or smile
Recollect on something you spoke about when you met, or something fun you’re currently doing.
Personally I’m more likely to respond to this sort of message then the standard “It was great meeting you.” You asked for my number silly, I know you thought it was great meeting me.
This is when being yourself and sharing who you are comes into play. If a girl doesn’t bite, well her loss you’ve shared a bit of who you are.
Grammar
Taking the time to spell tells a girl:
– That you’re thoughtful i.e. you liked her enough to reread the message before hitting send
– Eludes charm and intelligence. What girl could resist that?
– Get the following correct: To, two or too. You’re or Your. There, they’re or their. If you’re not sure ask Google!
Avoid lazy slang
Old school I know. I’m sure some may disagree, and sure take this advice with a grain of salt (we txt not text after all). Just keep in mind that most girls would like to be spoken to in a gentlemanly fashion.
Eg. You not Ya
It was nice meeting you.
And not: It was nice meeting ya.
Keep it short and sweet
Please don’t write a novel recollecting on how you met or why you liked her. 2-3 sentences max.
Anyone else have any great tips that have worked?
Best of luck!